North Node in Libra / 7th House

With your north node in Libra or the 7th house, you’re here to learn about relating and compromise in this lifetime. Relationships will be your greatest mirrors and teachers. 

With Aries or 1st house South Node energy, perhaps you were overly self-involved or too wrapped up in survival mode in a past life, or during your formative years of this life. Your early family environment may have made you feel like you couldn’t trust other people, or like you had to grow up fast and do everything on your own. There are many ways this could have played out, but in this lifetime you’re here to experience close friendships and intimate relationships that require you to grow past thinking only of yourself. You’ll learn to prioritize relationships and make some accommodations for others and their feelings. You’ll improve your relating skills and allow yourself to be more soft, gentle and considerate of others. You’re here to experience life with partnerships and close relationships. To understand the value of shared experiences. Collaboration and connection will bring you so many valuable lessons and help you evolve beyond what you might’ve thought possible.

Your Aries or 1st house South Node comes with gifts. It’s ruled by the planet Mars, god of war. This gives you a fierce strength and presence. You know how to go after what you want, even if it’s scary. You’re bold, assertive, and kind of a badass. You speak up for yourself, take action and get shit done. You also speak up for others - you’re an amazing advocate. You do things that our society can deem “selfish” by putting yourself first and prioritizing what you want. That’s an inspiring example for other people to be around - especially if they never put themselves first.

While being more intentional about embodying your Libra or 7th house NN, you won’t leave these Aries gifts behind. They just get transformed into a healthier expression, where both the Aries and Libra ends of your nodal axis are more balanced. For example, in an imbalanced expression of your SN, you could be a little bulldozing, perhaps dominating conversations and situations without considering others. Stepping into Libra energy will naturally balance those types of south node behaviors. But you won’t lose your strength or your daring spirit. You have a strong sense of self, and now you’ll practice appreciating and allowing others to share in your life experiences. You’ll learn how to communicate well with others, and how to consider their feelings and needs while still maintaining your magnetic individuality. You’ll learn a healthy interdependence, rather than losing yourself in a relationship or avoiding/sabotaging them altogether. You’ll find that by prioritizing the health of your relationships, your desires will manifest in ways that are even more fulfilling and meaningful than they would be if you just stayed in your comfort zone of doing everything on your own.

Aries / 1st House South Node Higher Expression
(your gifts and strengths)

Fierce strength and presence

Bold, assertive, direct, unapologetic

Independent (even within your relationships/partnerships)

Taking action instead of just talking about doing things

Prioritizing yourself and trusting yourself

Going after what you want, even when you’re scared

In touch with anger and your inner warrior

Willing to disappoint others or risk disapproval in living your truth

Aries / 1st House South Node Lower Expression
(things you’ll be letting go of)

Being overly aggressive and headstrong

Being too impulsive or competitive

Bulldozing conversations and relationship dynamics

Bossing people around and acting superior to them

Always doing your own thing without ever considering others

Wary of collaboration/partnership, unwilling to compromise

Lack of consideration and thoughtfulness

Avoiding or sabotaging relationships, going solo too often

North Node in Libra / 7th House
(north node embodiment goals)

Being thoughtful, gentle, considerate

Being a mediator and peacemaker

Being an amazing partner, friend, coworker, boss, etc.

Able to genuinely apologize when wrong

Giving and compromising in relationships

More balanced and reciprocal dynamic in relationships

Not just living for self, but for pleasure shared with others

Partnership and collaboration = rewards and growth

Famous People with Libra NN: Madonna, Kanye West, Shakira, John Lennon, Kendall Jenner, Al Pacino, Orlando Bloom, Zendaya, Ashton Kutcher, Bella Hadid, Tom Hardy, Dua Lipa, John Mayer, Lorde, Hailey Baldwin, Chris Martin, Liv Tyler, Simon Cowell, Tom Brady, John Cena, Amal Clooney, Sophie Turner, Fiona Apple, Hugh Laurie, Jessica Chastain, Jamie Lee Curtis, Zoe Saldana, Anya Taylor-Joy, Katherine Moennig, Betty White, Kevin Bacon, Joan Jett, January Jones, Noah Centineo, Kerry Washington, Florence Pugh, Angela Bassett